Are You Making These Common Etiquette Mistakes? - Part 1

Nicki Black
Jan 26
2 min read

A few years ago, I was attending a wedding reception and enjoying dinner when something unusual caught my attention. The guest seated to my right was drinking from my water glass. This simple yet common etiquette mistake is one many of us don’t realize we’re making. In this two-part series, I’ll be uncovering some common etiquette missteps that often go unnoticed but can have a big impact on how we’re perceived in social settings.

Conversational Etiquette Mistakes

Hurrying your conversation partner: While it’s perfectly fine to offer brief verbal cues to show you're engaged, try to avoid overusing phrases like 'yeah,' 'uh-huh,' or 'okay.' These can unintentionally rush the conversation and make your partner feel unheard.
Dominating the conversation: Avoid being the only talker. Conversations should be a balanced exchange, with each person contributing and engaging in a back-and-forth dialogue.

Workplace Etiquette Mistakes

Eating highly pungent food at your desk: Avoid eating foods that emit strong smells at your desk as it may not be well-received by your coworkers. Either avoid bringing in such fare or find a better space to enjoy it, such as a designated breakroom or perhaps dine alfresco.
Not introducing others: Failing to introduce others can make them feel excluded and uncomfortable. Always remember to make introductions when someone new joins a meeting or conversation.

Digital Etiquette Mistakes

Texting when a phone call is more appropriate: Need to share about a complicated situation, deliver bad news, or offer an apology? A personal touch is the best option. Pick up the phone and make a call rather than sending a text message.
Using all caps in communications: This can come across as shouting and be perceived as aggressive and rude.

Dining Etiquette Mistakes

Drinking from your neighbor's water glass: Avoid the mix-up by remembering the acronym BMW—your Bread plate is on the Left, your Meal plate is in the Middle, and your Water glass is on your Right.
Chewing with your mouth open: Remember that those around you can see your partially chewed food and may hear unpleasant sounds like lip-smacking. Practice mindfulness while eating to help ensure your mouth stays closed.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where I’ll dive into more common etiquette mistakes and how to avoid them!

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