Are You Making These Common Etiquette Mistakes: Part 2

Nicki Black
Mar 4
2 min read

A small gesture, like holding the door for someone, takes little effort but can leave a lasting impression. More than once, I’ve been met with unexpected gratitude—"Wow, thank you so much!"—as if kindness had caught them off guard. Moments like these remind me how powerful even the simplest acts of courtesy can be. In the second part of our two-part series, we’ll explore common etiquette missteps—those everyday oversights that may seem minor but can have a big impact.

Social Etiquette Mistakes

Responding Late or Not at All: When you're invited to an event, responding promptly is a simple yet essential courtesy. A timely RSVP helps the host plan accordingly.
Arriving Empty-Handed: A thoughtful gesture goes a long way in showing appreciation for your host’s effort. Bringing a small token of gratitude—such as a bottle of wine, chocolates, or beautiful stationery—demonstrates kindness and thoughtfulness.
Ignoring Introductions: Avoid the common mistake of neglecting to introduce new people in a conversation. Always introduce others to create a welcoming environment and prevent awkward moments.

Public Etiquette Mistakes

Standing in the Way of Others: Be mindful of your surroundings and avoid standing in areas that may obstruct others. If you find yourself in a busy walkway or doorway, step aside or stay aware of those who may need to pass.
Not Holding the Door for Others: Showing courtesy to the person behind you by holding the door is a simple gesture that only takes a moment but can make a difference to someone else.
Talking Loudly in Quiet Spaces: If your natural speaking voice is loud, be especially mindful of your volume in quiet spaces like libraries and theaters. Speaking too loudly can be disruptive and distracting to others.

Gift-Giving Etiquette Mistakes

Regifting Without Much Thought: Before regifting an item, consider if it’s something you would genuinely choose for the recipient. Thoughtful regifting should be intentional, not like passing along an unwanted item.
Failing to Remove the Price Tag: Whoops! We've likely all done this, but it's ideal for the receiver to remain unaware of the cost of the gift.
Forgetting the Gift Presentation: A beautifully wrapped gift adds excitement and shows effort. Taking a little time to present it well makes a big difference.

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